We Are Unleash Dates

Social confidence for adults, in Lincoln and online

Feel at ease with people, one practised conversation at a time.

Small-group workshops, a six-week course and 1:1 coaching for adults who want conversations to feel less like hard work. Groups never go above eight. Nobody is put on the spot.

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8people at most in any group
2hours in a single workshop
6weeks in the small-group course
3ways to begin

Find your starting point

Four plain questions, no email needed. You will get one suggestion and its price. If you would rather talk it through first, use the enquiry form further down.

This is a guide to which format may suit you. It is not an assessment of any kind.

1. What would help most?
2. How do you like to learn?
3. How much time can you give?
4. Where would you rather meet?

Three ways to work with us

Every format is led by a coach, kept small and built around practice rather than theory.

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Two-hour workshop

£65 a person

One evening or Saturday morning. Short, guided conversations in pairs, then a plan for what to try next.

  • Up to 10 people
  • In Lincoln or online
  • No preparation needed
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Our core programme

Six-week small-group course

£390 for six weeks

The same eight people each week, so practice builds and conversations get easier to start and to leave.

  • Maximum 8 people
  • Six weekly sessions of two hours
  • Notes and a short practice task each week
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Most personal

1:1 coaching

£75 a 50-minute session

For one situation or a wider goal: a new job, a wedding speech, a move to a new city. Three sessions for £210.

  • Just you and your coach
  • In Lincoln or online
  • Fits around your diary
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Next five workshop dates

The two-hour workshop runs every other week. Seats are limited so that everyone gets time to talk.

  • Thursday evening, in Lincoln

    6.30pm to 8.30pm. Central Lincoln, exact room sent on booking.

  • Saturday morning, online

    10am to 12 noon. Video call, link sent on booking.

  • Thursday evening, in Lincoln

    6.30pm to 8.30pm. Central Lincoln, exact room sent on booking.

  • Saturday morning, in Lincoln

    10am to 12 noon. Central Lincoln, exact room sent on booking.

  • Thursday evening, online

    6.30pm to 8.30pm. Video call, link sent on booking.

Demo only. Reserving here holds nothing and takes no payment.

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How a session runs

  1. Arrive and settle10 minutes. Tea, names, and the ground rules: you choose what to share, and what is said stays in the room.
  2. Practise in pairs40 minutes. Short, structured conversations with a clear prompt, then a change of partner.
  3. Look at what worked30 minutes. The coach points out what you did well and one thing to adjust.
  4. Try one new thing30 minutes. A slightly harder exercise, always optional, always in a small group.
  5. Plan your week10 minutes. One small, specific thing to try before next time.
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Eight chairs. One table. No stage.

Questions people ask

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching, not treatment. We teach practical skills for conversations and we practise them together. We do not diagnose, treat or give advice about any medical or mental health condition. If you are struggling with anxiety or low mood, please talk to your GP. Coaching is not a substitute for that.

Who is it for?

Adults aged 18 and over who want conversations to feel easier. You do not need any experience, and you do not need to have a particular reason.

Will I have to speak in front of the group?

No. Almost all of the work is in pairs. You choose what to share, and nobody is asked to perform.

What if I cannot make a date?

You can move to another date, or have a full refund, up to seven days before. After that we can offer a place on a later date.

How do the online sessions work?

By video call, with the same small groups as in Lincoln. You will need a quiet space, a camera and a microphone. We send the link on booking.

Is the room in Lincoln accessible?

The room is step-free and we can make adjustments if you tell us in advance. Online sessions can include captions on request.

What people say

I booked the workshop expecting to want to leave at the break. By the end I had swapped numbers with someone I met in the second exercise.

Hannah R., workshop in Lincoln

Six weeks with the same small group made the difference. Starting a conversation at work no longer takes a run-up.

Dev P., six-week course online

Three sessions before my sister's wedding. My coach gave me one thing to practise each time and it was exactly enough.

Marian T., 1:1 coaching

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Ask us anything first

Not sure which format to pick, or want to check something before you book? Send a few lines and a coach will reply within two working days.

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